Female sexual dysfunction may involve an inability to experience sexual pleasure (arousal dysfunction); or an inability to achieve orgasm (organic dysfunction).
FREQUENT SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS
- Lack of sexual desire.
- Inability to enjoy sex.
- Lack of vaginal lubrication.
- Failure to achieve orgasm, even when sexually aroused.
- Inadequate or ineffective foreplay.
- Psychological problems, including depression, poor self-esteem, sexual abuse or incest.
- Feelings of shame or guilt about sex.
- Fear pregnancy.
- Stress and fatigue.
- Acute illness or chronic illness, especially of the central nervous system or endocrine system, as with multiple sclerosis or hypothyroidism.
- Inexperience or inadequate information about sexuality on the part of either partner.
- Repressed anger toward the sexual partner that may result from feelings of being used as a sexual project, physical or emotional abuse, jealousy or fears of disloyalty, or lack of true intimacy.
- Drug abuse including alcohol.
- Gynecologic factors (infection or other disorders).
RISK INCREASES WITH
- Use of some medications, such as MAO inhibitors, antidepressants, beta-adrenergic blockers.
- Diabetes mellitus.
- Couple discrepancies in expectations and attitudes toward sex.
- Proximity of other people in the home (children, mother-in-law).
- Talk with your partner about your sexual needs and feelings.
- Seek counseling to resolve feelings about past sexual trauma or abuse.
Best predictors of positive outcome are the desire to change and an overall healthy relationship. Arousal dysfunction is more difficult to treat and outcome may vary. Admit the problem and try to establish open communication with your partner. Pretending that you are aroused or have orgasms leaves the problem unsolved.
- Permanent inability to enjoy sex.
- Damage to interpersonal relationships.
- Diagnostic tests may include laboratory blood tests and other studies to rule out physical causes of arousal or orgasmic dysfunction.
- If no physical problems are found, a detailed sexual history is the most important tool for determining an appropriate treatment program.
Possible treatment methods:
- For childhood sexual abuse problems-psychotherapy or counseling.
- For arousal dysfunction-relaxation techniques, sensate focus exercises, counseling (usually with a sex therapist).
- For medication-caused problems-change in dosage, discontinuance, or a change to a different medication.
- Other problems-family therapy, sensate conditioning, referral to a specialized sex therapist.
Eat a well-balanced diet. Vitamin and mineral supplements may be helpful. Weight loss program may be recommended if either partner is overweight.